Relationship Reality- Part 1

Being in a relationship is the most beautiful thing one can ever experience but is it easy to stand up to it? Is it easy to make it consistent and flowing? Is it easy to understand the opposite every time? Is it easy to maintain the happiness in your relationship? The answer to all this is a big NO. It takes a lot of effort to make your relationship beautiful.

Falling in love with each other is an emotional process which eventually leads to relationship and which in turn requires full committment for each other. After being in a relationship you ought to know the other person more than he or she knows about herself or himself. It is the automatic process as you spend most of the time with your partner be it on phone, video calls, meeting thrice a week or even staying together on your mutual decision.

The first thing to be kept in mind is to respect each other’s choices, preferences, tastes and mindset because you are tend to know all these things after coming into a relationship and not while you were falling in love with each other. When you fall in love you just see the iceberg floating upon the sea . The huge part of iceberg which is under the sea is seen after coming into a relationship which constitutes the whole self of your loved one. Every person is different and unique and when u respect and accept that different self of your partner then it is the first successful step leading to a good relationship.

Misunderstandings is the another thing to be focused upon in a relationship. It will prevail no matter what due to difference in mindset, opinions and much more from your partner. For instance its okay according to your boyfriend to have some drinks at midnight with his female friends but according to a girlfriend its may be wrong to enjoy and have drinks with her male friends at midnight. From here on misunderstandings can prevail which will eventually lead to conflict with your partner. If you talk about these things calmly with your partner then the chances of misunderstandings can decrease to a great extent.

I think its enough for u all for now to grasp these aspects of relationship. Part 2 or the final part of relationship reality will be coming soon. I hope you like it. Till then buh bye. Life is good.